Why Put Yourself On Paper?

The entirety of your life cannot be summed up by a few words on a piece of paper. We all know that. We’re complex, sometimes contradictory and often confusing creatures. But if we want to get the best out of life, clearing up that confusion can be important. And doing a little personal audit is one of the best ways to do that.

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Keep sight of your goals

Goals are funny things. They should get us excited and motivated but a lot of the time, when we think about them, we end up getting depressed because they seem so far. That’s because we don’t give them the focus they deserve. The stresses and responsibilities of life get in the way and out priorities slip. That’s why it’s important, every now and then, to make a list of goals yourself. Put down your long-term aims and the short-term steps you’re taking to get closer to them.

Get the truth of relationships

If being one person is confusing enough, then wanting to permanently (or at least on a long-term basis) throw someone else in there can double the confusion. It’s a lot worse if you don’t figure out the truth of what you want, however. Many people don’t really know what they’re looking for in a relationship. They have standards, but not goals. Now is the time to list out the truly most important qualities you look for in a part. If you’re unsure, then it could be a good idea to use a little divine guidance like readings from http://astrostyle.com. Ignore the trivial and the superficial for now. Think beliefs, behaviors, and virtues like compassion, decency, or motivation.

Take stock

Looking at what you want from the future is important. However, if you don’t give yourself credit then all you see are unticked boxes and no achievements. Taking stock of your life, as recommended at http://www.skillsyouneed.com is essential. If you don’t see and believe in your own achievement, it’s all too easy to think that you genuinely can’t achieve anything. Congratulate yourself when you deserve it and use the positivity as fuel to keep going.

Be truly self-aware

A lot of people think they understand themselves pretty well. They think about times they’ve been brave, times when they’ve been stupid, all the big moments that they think make the sum of their life and personality. But those aren’t really what make you who you are. Being mindful, paying real awareness to how you interact with the world and how others react to you or situations they’re in can give you the real skinny on the most common of your characteristics. You need to be more present in the world to truly better understand yourself, listing characteristics you could change or capitalize on. Soul-searching is just navel-gazing if you’re ignorant of the people around you.

The next time you’re feeling in a rut or wondering what you’re doing with life, get out a couple pieces of paper. You will feel a lot better when you express what you want, what you’re proud of, and what you can fix. It can give you the focus to take action and sort your life out if only a little bit.

 

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