Judging by the awful gift I’ve seen some of my friends receive over the years, it seems that most men don’t know what they’re doing when buying for a lover. Sorry guys, but no woman ever really wanted that slow cooker or new vacuum cleaner. At least not from her S/O.
While she probably has a few items on her wish list, the products aren’t that important. In truth, she’s far more interested in the thought behind those gifts. Focus on these four points below, and you’ll be just fine.
She Wants To Feel Special
First and foremost, every woman wants to feel loved by her man. Even if you’re not a guy that tends to show his emotions, this is a chance to do it in style. Personalized jewelry from Soufeel is a fantastic way to do this. Meanwhile, artistic creatives can make songs, paint pictures, or write poems. Your love means more than any price tag.
Being public with your emotions can be a very effective idea too. Knowing that you have pride in her can provide a warmth that no present ever could.
She Wants To Spend Time With You
Gifts are great, but there’s nothing quite like spending time with the person you love. The time you share on Christmas Day will be amazing regardless of the gifts you buy each other. So why not take things further by planning future time together through your gifts.
Whether it’s booking a holiday, a spa break, or a day out doing something you love doesn’t matter. Pick something that is built towards her enjoyment more than yours. That selflessness will be sure to score you extra boyfriend points too.
She Wants To Know That You Get Her
Your lover is special and has many talents and passions that make he unique. Celebrating those individual traits and positive features show that you’ve genuinely put a lot of effort into the idea. These don’t even have to be gifts where she is the direct beneficiary. Sponsoring an animal at the WWF is a great example. Alternatively, you could do other charitable things in her name.
Other great solutions include doing something aimed to enhance her hobbies. Either way, doing something that is unique to her is key. Opting for something that’s clearly from the local Walmart won’t do.
She Wants To See You’re Attentive
The emotional connection between two people is amazing. However, she still wants to know that you find her attractive and still notice everything about here. Therefore, treating her to things she uses in her beauty rituals can work wonders. Likewise, perfumes are a winning solution as long as you choose her scent.
Many men worry it’s saying “you aren’t naturally beautiful”. Even if a woman says this jokingly, she doesn’t mean anything by it. Knowing that her S.O wants her to look and feel her best is a great gift to receive. If nothing else, the practical element makes it a great gift.